Questions & Answers

Curious about Japan? Real Questions, Real Answers
Ever wondered what it’s like to live in Japan, or why some traditions seem so unique?
Here, I share the most common (and unexpected!) questions I’ve received through my work as a tour guide and from friends.
Take a look—you might just find the answer you’re looking for!

Frequently Asked Questions about Japan

1. Why don’t Japanese people speak English that much?

Even though most Japanese people study English for about 8 years in school, the focus is mostly on grammar, not conversation.
That means they rarely get the chance to practice speaking, so a lot of people feel pretty insecure about it.
You’ll probably notice that many can read and understand English better than they can speak it.

2. Why are tattoos frowned upon in Japan?

Tattoos in Japan still have a strong association with crime.
Originally, tattoos (called “irezumi”) were used to mark criminals.
Over time, they became more artistic, but the negative image stuck.
Even now, in movies and dramas, you’ll often see bad guys with tattoos, which keeps the idea alive that tattoos are something to be cautious about.
But honestly, that perception is slowly changing, especially among younger generations.

3. Is it true that tipping is considered rude in Japan?

Honestly, who wouldn’t be happy to get extra money? Haha!
You might see people online saying tipping is rude, but that’s not really true.
It’s just that Japanese people aren’t used to it and might politely decline out of humility.
Deep down, most people feel pretty flattered and grateful when they receive a tip!
So don’t worry—it’s not about being rude, just different cultural habits.

4. Why are Japanese people so quiet on trains?

From a young age, Japanese people are taught to be quiet and respectful in public spaces.
Being noisy or disturbing others is a big no-no.
Even when traveling with friends or family, most people either whisper or just don’t talk at all.
And yeah, talking on the phone while on the train? Total manners fail!
You’ll notice that people tend to keep their voices down extra low on public transportation—so it’s a good idea to do the same!

5. Tokyo’s train system is so complicated. How do I handle it?

Honestly, it can be a bit overwhelming at first!
My best tip? Get an IC card like Suica or Pasmo. These rechargeable smart cards are super convenient for public transportation in Tokyo. Paper tickets are a hassle, especially when switching between different train lines.
With an IC card, you can just tap and go, which makes life so much easier.
(Oh, and for more tips on navigating Tokyo, check out my app, Wakuwaku Tokyo Guide!)

6. How do I book a seat on the Shinkansen?

You can book through “Ekinet” or “Smart EX.”
Honestly, I’d say go for a reserved seat. During busy times, unreserved seats can be a nightmare—you might end up standing for two hours straight!
Better safe than sorry!

7. Why are Japanese people so slim?

There’s a saying here: “Hara hachibunme”, which means “eat until you’re 80% full.”
A lot of people don’t eat until they’re stuffed, plus they include plenty of healthy foods like seaweed and fermented dishes in their diet.
Maybe that’s why they stay slim!
(If you’re curious, I’ve got more on this in my blog!)

8. Do I really need to carry cash in Japan?

Yep, cash is still king in a lot of places!
Many restaurants, food stalls, and even some small shops only accept cash.
And if you’re into capsule toy machines (gachapon), coins are a must!
It’s just easier to keep some yen on you.

9. I heard someone slurping noodles—is that okay?

Yep, totally okay! In Japan, slurping your noodles is actually considered polite.
It shows that you’re enjoying your meal.
If you eat soba or ramen without slurping, it actually feels a bit odd to Japanese people!
So go ahead—slurp away!

10. Why do Japanese people work so much?

It’s gotten a bit better recently, but traditionally, Japan had a really intense work culture—so intense that there’s even a word for working to the point of death: karoshi (過労死).
People believed that the more you worked and sacrificed, the more dedicated and hardworking you were.
So even if productivity wasn’t great, just being at work itself was valued.
Honestly, I don’t really get it either, but that mindset is slowly changing!

11. What clothing is acceptable?

Japanese people generally don’t like revealing outfits, but there aren’t any strict dress codes.
However, when visiting a nice sushi place or a traditional restaurant, it’s better to avoid strong perfume.
Japanese cuisine is all about subtle flavors and aromas, and heavy scents can really ruin the experience for others.
Basically, keep it classy and considerate!